It is very important for every parent to teach their child that negativity has a higher value than positivity. Encouraging words will surely have a longer effect on your kids. You need to be very careful while you are speaking to your child because whatever you will speak-negative or positive it will leave a lifetime impact on them.

Our children inherit those things only which they see. So, whether you want to tell them how great they were at playing a sport or how much you love spending time with them, here are some positive and encouraging things to say to your child on a daily basis.

• I’m grateful to you
• You make me proud.
• Your words are meaningful.
• You have great ideas.
• I love being your parent.
• You don’t have to be perfect to be great.
• Your opinions matter.
• You are important.
• You are loved.
• I believe you.
• I believe in you.
• This family wouldn’t be the same without you.
• You are valuable.
• You can say no.
• You can say yes.
• I know you did your best.
• You were right.
• I accept who you are.
• We can try your way.
• You are helpful
• You are worth it.
• You make me happy.
• I love your creativity.
• Being around you is fun.
• I can’t wait to hear about it.
• Don’t be afraid to be you.
• You’re making a difference.
• I’m excited to spend time with you.
• You are interesting.
• I love seeing the world your way.
• It’s good to be curious.
• I love the way you tell stories.
• What you did was awesome.
• I admire you.
• That’s a great question.
• Your friends are lucky to have you.
• I trust you.
• That was a really good choice.
• Seeing you happy makes me happy.
• Being your parent is my favourite job.

Sprinkling these positive things to say to your child into everyday conversation isn’t hard.  Words inspire, motivate, and build self-esteem. Language matters! Pay attention to the words you use around your kids. Set an intention to consciously say at least three positive affirmations to your child daily, until it becomes a habit. The confidence and self-worth you build now will help your little ones grow into healthy, happy adults.

“The way we talk to our children becomes their inner voice.” – Peggy O’Mara