“The most terrifying thing is to accept oneself completely.” a famous saying by Carl Gustav Jung, the founder of analytical psychology and psychiatrist.

Today, you see, it has become difficult to love ourselves only, in our true nature.  As we are living in the world of social media, with so much distraction,  where everyone is trying to compare one another and pretending to be the best version of themselves in beauty, skills, attitudes, qualifications, and confidence, it has become crucial to just try and stop thinking about others and focus on oneself, self-love or self-care.

If you don’t take care of your own being, then who will? Those who do not take care of themselves become vulnerable to negativity and negative projection of others onto them.  They feel they are being the target, feel dominated by others, and sometimes feel left out in a crowd full of people.  But if you are self-loved, you improve your confidence, you can stand for your own self-worth, and can accept any challenge from any person around you, but first, it is important to learn how to love yourself.

1. Avoid negative people around you

Negative people just destroy your spirit and confidence you should identify those people and start avoiding them. Positivity is very important in everyone’s life it is a major part of self-love this makes you happy and always shining.

2. Take care of yourself

Loving yourself means taking care to the fullest proper sleep, proper eating, and Maintaining your physical health and mental health is very important, workload and stress should never stop you from taking care of yourself and loving yourself. Go for a spa day, eat healthily, do yoga and meditation, or do whatever is important for your body and mind.

3. Have time for yourself and your family

You and your family are part of a see-saw if not balanced properly then one or the other will tumble. Take a break from your busy life and spend time with yourself and your family this gives you happiness and a sense of closeness between you and family.

4. Just relax

Lay down on your bed and just forget everything the stress of the work, family problems, exams or anything with was running through your mind every day just forget everything and relax watch your favourite movie or listen to music just do something which can relax you in any way.

5. Take a break and go out for a trip with your loved ones

Taking a break and going out for a vacation is the best thing you can do if your life is messed up in any way. Change your environment and change your schedule this will make you cheerful and optimistic. Plan a trip to your favourite destination it’s not important to go far away from your home but a little change will help you to take a step toward self-loving.

6. Appreciate yourself every day

You should know that you are the best, you are beautiful you are confident, and no one is like you, the qualities you have makes you one of a kind and it is important to realise that appreciating yourself makes you a better person with full of confidence and love your own self.